hi foundation
we all have to learn and some people just don’t know so we must bite our lip every so often.
you are correct in your post the other little point is that with most depts they don’t have sunset clauses so if they find out in 9 years that you have done the wrong thing you can’t say its been to long so you can’t get me they have very long arms and very deep pockets so just do the right thing and you have no problems.
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