What attracted you to your current mate?

I met my wife while backpacking in Canada on a train. Look what happens if you speak to strangers. In the 2 and a half years I was working/travelling overseas that train was the only one packed enough that you actually spoke to a person.

We chatted for the length of the trip. She was rugged up in black and with the blond hair I was more than happy to spin my shit.

I stayed in a youth hostel for a few days and returned to Montreal after visiting Quebec City and stayed with her and her parents in their basement in the surburbs.

She could have cut me in a 1000 pieces and no-one would have known. But there was a special feeling and it felt right.

Anyway, we have been married now for 7 years and now have 2 kids. In 6-8 weeks time we are going to Canada for my sister in laws wedding. A 24 hr flight with 2 young kids should be fun.

I met my (6 yrs my junior) “toy boy” husband #2 at Myers (Grace Bros to non-Victorians).

I was shopping for a xmas gift for my son, and couldn’t find the sporting section, he was one of those covert security guards (no uniform, just suit and tie, real yummy look). He was following me around the store, staring at me for the longest time and it was making me uncomfortable, when suddenly he came up and asked if I needed any help. I told him I was looking for the sports section, and he informed me he was just about to take a break from his patrol and would show me where it had been relocated to.

I thanked him, and as we were walking along he asked if I cared to join him for coffee. Normally I would have hesitated, but I was curious as to why he had been following and staring so intently at me (BTW he was still staring, only this time with more redness in his cheeks)[blush2] I really wanted to query him on his reason (as it was more than your average passing glance) so I agreed!!

His reason (words I’ll never forget):

You had the most adoreably lost look on your face I’d ever seen, and at first I thought you were a shop-lifter, which is what I was hoping for, that way I could arrest you!!! But sadly when you didn’t try and steal anything I knew that if I didn’t act quickly I’d loose you, so I decided to follow you around, even if it meant losing my job, it was like a voice was telling me not to let you go!!!

How sweet is that???!!!! [inlove] And you know….he never did stop staring!!!! [lmao]

Did I get what I hoped for??? Yes, and then some!!! [winking][winking]

Jo

P.S. Yes that’s him next to me in the members pic photo, isn’t he gorgeous???!!!!! [inlove]

hotshot – is there something you need to tell us about your relationship with jo???

nah nothing to tell aussie jo is just a reel nice persson who helped me lots with finding ip and other stuff and she teachas class at my mates uni somedays nice to talk to and she very frendly to!
i know shes married nothing wrong with that but i stil think she pretty!

wallflower – hehe, i was just joking – being a rogue…her chest is average size – but nice nonehteless..

truth is the first time i met my wife i was immediately attracted by this sense of innocence and wonderment in everything she does…in the way she thinks, talks, listens etc she does so with a majestic lack of cynisism…its amazing and wize at the same time..

plus – i found her incredibly attractivein a physical sense. very natural looking wch i like…

My hubby and I both worked for Coles and started work each morning at 5am. I was in the bakery and he was in seafood. Every morning we said a half awake hello to each other and went our seperate ways.

After several months, he was promoted to management and we rarely saw each other. One afternoon I was just tidying up before going home and he asked if I’d like to see a movie with him. Out of sheer surprise I said yes and turned around and went back to what I was doing. I later found out that he had been following me around the store for about 5 hours trying to get the courage to ask me.

We went out for pizza (his favourite) and saw a movie. To this day neither of us can remember what it was (and no we hadn’t been drinking or taking drugs…).

Things had gone really well so on the drive home as we were chatting I decided to find out what the age difference was between us (I have always looked years younger than I am). I asked his birthday and when he asked mine and found out that he was 4 years younger he just said “cool I’m a toy boy!” – I was hoping it wouldn’t worry him but he seemed to think it was some sort of a bonus.

When he walked me to my front door he said goodnight and kissed me on the cheek. It was so sweet, romantic and old fashioned that I think that’s when I fell in love with him.

We’ve been married for nearly five years and have two beautiful children, Brianna who is turning 4 on 1st October and Daniel who has just turned two on 9th May.

My husband Mathew and my children are the answer to a prayer that I didn’t dare to ask.

Cheers
Sonja

My husband had a consant harem of women around him, one day i decided enough was enough, i followed him out to a dark car park and said ‘ I want to be the mother of your children’ He said ‘Sweet, the panel van’s this way’

We’ve been inseperable ever since.
Tissues anyone?

SF

CONNECTION on it’s own is wonderful, and you can be great mates – all that good stuff like emotional, spiritual, intellectual connection and mutual understanding. And a connection is truly effortless – you have it or you don’t.

SEXUAL ATTRACTION on it’s own is wonderful, and you can have lots of fun

but when you get CONNECTION and SEXUAL ATTRACTION in the same person, then you’re on to something.

So i found that…and we added COMMITTMENT to the mix plus the FREEDOM to grow both as individuals and as partnership.

So the result is i feel PEACE in a relationship for the first time in my life. Coming up to 8 years together.

cheers-
Mini

that’s what

joy to the world

[cap]

She’d have me.

cheers Deano

Eight inches.