Hi all,
‘YES IT’S GOOD OL’ GEORGE (I mean Gatsby!),
Just jumped back on this thread. What I have experienced before and I guess currently must look for in a partner (not ‘like’, because after all, one hasn’t met the person they are describing yet) is this I guess. I don’t know if anyone else here has had this experience before but it seems to hold true to 2 intense relationships I’ve had in my life. A girl who was to many ‘georgeous’, I found , yeah she’s cute or whatever. However after I went out with this girl it was like a suntan. Within a week, whatever the chemical/sexual attraction we had faded. A girl I knew at Uni was sitting next to me at orientation week. She appeared young, ‘squeaky’ clean and innocent in her youth at the time. After a year she dropped out of Uni due to a response she copped from a lecturer who couldn’t answer her question and copped out. She dropped out of Uni on principle. We became good friends at Uni up until then and then she left. However, during that time her looks abandoned me and I started to be in love with her mind and I discovered things in her both sexually and intellectually that I was just so blind to prior! We went out after she dropped out of Uni and I couldn’t believe this was the same person I viewed on the first day at Uni??? Our relationship was stormy, passionate, intellectually stimulating as much as it was sexual, if not more. It’s just bizzare that often you can be initially attracted to someone for their physical appearance, yet it often diminishes over time. Then you can meet someone who you don’t see in that way at all. However the longer you spend with them, the more beautiful they appear each day and become, as if illuminating from a lantern inside! As this attraction isn’t limited to their physical being, then the attraction, love and their beauty has no limits.
Gatsby.However the longer you spend with them, the more beautiful they appear each day and become, as if illuminating from a lantern inside! As this attraction isn’t limited to their physical being, then the attraction, love and their beauty has no limits.
Wow Gatsby you have a romantic heart! This is just beautiful!Celivia
Hey Celivia,
Does that mean Gatsby have won your heart???[inlove][inlove]How sweet !!!!!!
Jo
Hehe LOL Monopoly, just recognising a romantic heart when I see it!
[biggrin]Celivia
Hi
Can you imagine Sylvester Stallone reciting poetry to you…
Chemistry is a funny thing it just happens and voila.
cheers
Hi Alf,
Can you imagine ‘Hamlet reciting Rocky’? It’s just not the same thing.
Regards,
Gatsby.I know this “beauty from the inside” thing that is recited. What I’m thinking is… does that give uas an excuse to let ourselves go? We then think “Oh well- i can always do the ‘beauty from the inside’ thing now”?
As Celivia said- can’t we have BOTH?? Or is the market so fraught, that there cannot be a truly beautiful house with high yields too?
Are we opting out of beauty to just go for emotion?
Over to you folks [whistle]
kay henry
Gatsby, i have tears in my eyes…what happened why didn’t you marry her and make a honest woman outta her…
Kay, my husband loves me so much that he is totally blind to my wobbly bits..ahhh men, put something right in front of their eyes and they still can’t see it…thank you Lord!!
WallFlower :o) Yes, one way is for the one (or ones) who love us to ignore or not see the physical characteristics that make us unique. Another way is for htem to fetishise those qualities- that’s good too :o) Means it becomes essential to them.
Check out this site:
It is NOT a porn site. Nor is it a healthy site. It’s about men (usually thin ones) who feed women- that is their fetish. There was a doco on SBS a few months ago about it- the guy wanted his wife to eat so much, he was content for her to die.
My comments above were not about fetishising someone until they die! But it was saying that it’s nice to have someone appreciate us for exactly who we are- even our wobbly or furry bits [goatee]
kay henry
Oh,..yeah! I forgot to tell you wallflower that she was married!
Cheers,
Gatsby!!!!!Originally posted by alf:Hi
Can you imagine Sylvester Stallone reciting poetry to you…
Chemistry is a funny thing it just happens and voila.
cheers
Celivia
How strange! I wrote things underneath this quote of ALf’s and nothing came up just that quote! Sorry!
Well I was saying that yes tough guys can do poetry still in my eyes.
Maybe not the proper rhyming poetry, or the slushy purple proza kind of things, but words like:
Hasta la vista BABY! and I’ll be back! and Go ahead and make my day!
This does have some poetric qualities for me, because it stirs my feelings! Come on girls, don’t you think this tough stuff should count as poetry, too? [biggrin]Celivia
[ohno2]Gatsby you bastar* !!!
Yup Celivia, I think ‘Take me like a horse’ is poetry too…..not ![happy3]
Hey Kay, I found those ladies on that site
(www.feeder.co.uk) rather gross (no pun intended).However everyone to their own. As long as they aren’t forced into such behaviour by some male
manipulating chauvinistic pig ( is that what you would call them?) good luck to them if that is their way to happiness.However, I ran into a site this morning and would like to ask your opinion as to what you think about the way the following ladies look like.
Their names are Nancy Lewis, Fannie Barrios and
Beth Roberts.Go to http://www.australianmuscle.com.au/muscle_news/v7_i9_sept2002.htm which is an Australian site, scroll down to nearly the bottom and you will find them.
Pisces
My dear WallFlower,
I WAS ONLY JOKING! She wasn’t married,….ummh, I was!
Cheers,
Gatsby!
PS Wallflower. I just received an email from PropertyGuru and he told me he lost my photo and said to email it to him today and he will post it. What I’m wearing in the photo is what I wore the other night at the meeting which you stood me up on. Come to the next meeting and I’ll wear the same so you’ll know who to look for. ‘Bastard’, me? (She jests at scars that never felt a wound)Pisces, the thing about feeder.co.uk is that it is a fetish site. The fetish is that the guys want the women to eat- and eat and eat and eat. It is about the guys’ fetish and has nothing to do with what the women want- that’s why I posted it here- it’s areally interesting fetish- damned unhealthy one though :o( Amazing what people get off on.
As to the muscular women on that site, Pisces… well, a few comments. Firstly, they don’t really need the top half of a bikini because they have pecs, not breasts! Secondly, I would never be attracted to a woman like that- that is what I call “bad femme”. and nor would I like to be like that- I’d rather be like this: [goatee] However, I do respect anyone who works hard for stuff, and the kind of discipline that that must take to get one’s boy in that kind of shape= well, I do respect that.
I just like soft women – soft of mind and body.
kay henry
Gatsby, what is it with you and married women ?
Originally posted by Supa Freak:Gatsby, what is it with you and married women ?
Maybe the fact that they are “married”??? [jerry]
[blink][blush2][blink][lmao][lmao][lmao]You ‘HO’ wallflower[jerry]
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