Dear Dazzling,

As your favoriate saying “No point having a cake if you can not eat it:. It seems you are doing exactly the opporsite. You are miles ahead of 80% of people on this forum I believe.

I used to work for government department and had a good pay. But I hated to go to work early for not able to seeing my kids wate up in the morning; in the afternoon, I did not have time to play with them. I quited (am an engineer). I felt quite enjoryable now.

Money can not buy back time. If in 5-10 years time, your kids about 15-20 years old, they do not really need you. In their memory, they could only remember the holidays you are with them. Mrs Doubtfire is a great movie.

Anyway, it is a personal choice. You could give them each $millions property portfolio instead…

“No point having a cake if you can not eat it”