To Brown wombat and Crashy, I think you have both totally misunderstood what I was trying to say. I do not judge anyone to do what they want in life and “laziness”, who ever said for me to reach my goals its going to be brought to me on a silver platter? I do realize that laziness wont get anyone very far, so to both of you please do not put words into my mouth. Possibly I worded my post to be open to you interpretations, however what i was trying to get accross was that im just frustrated and looking for a starting point becuase I am not career driven, in the sense of a job. I am driven by success and am aware that this takes hard work and dedication. I apologise if my post came accross as critical, it was not written in that way at all. I love my family and friends and respect their views, I was just saying that they dont have my mindset and was wondering where you can meet people with a similar one and where to begin the journey.