Wat????? weird!

Thanks you all give me good ideas….with this separation going on…i feel totally spaced out…i can't focus…some times i can't even think or make a decission…i feel so stupid…i'm usually in control and very smart….i'm thinking of changing my job now…so that i can work and study…like i said….i planned to live with him forever…i…[Read more]

I'm sooo confussed still over where to go…sydney or adelaide…..i know adelaide is cheaper….but….i have a very close friend in sydney as well…adelaide for financial reasons or sydney for personal reasons…which one would be more wiser…surely what i could do in adelaide i should be able to do in sydney ay? Surely i could find reasonable…[Read more]

Thanks Ryan…dah!!!DD…sorry to hear that…was she 40?If so man…i am so suprised that a majority or women do this around 40…weird….this is what my husband said to me once…cause i want to renovate and make a profit and sell..he said…why spend $20K to upgrade the kitchen or bathroom…when your only going to get that $20K back when you…[Read more]

OK everyone bear with me….I am extreemly inexperienced…and as some say…green!!! BUT……. Nathan-B what is CG and CF ?Crusty – when you say……. 'limited supply'….of housing…right? And how do you know if its the most desirable location if you're not a local? And…..'put down 10% deposite, usaully to a devolper who needs to get some…[Read more]

I live in Katherine, 350km south of Darwin….I cant get bond assistance because I still have access to the house…because my husband has allowed me to continue to do family day care here…at the moment he is staying with his friends…but in a couple of months…he'll move back in and I will have to find somewhere else to live and work.

Well at times I'm am desperate…depends on the ex….if he's in a bad mood…hell yeah…I wanna leave town asap!!!…but things have been reasonably good for the last few days…so I'm cooling down and taking it more slowly…but I know…soon down the track…it's going to hit me…and I'm going to be in the shi@#$. I've gotta have options now…[Read more]

I'm cool…got my head on right…just the husband's stress sometimes becomes mine..because his bad at managing his stress. I try my best to stay relaxed and i dont dwell over negative things, just keep moving forward.  I'm in no rush to buy yet…i'm looking at december…until the children get used of us two living apart, then relocate. Thanks…[Read more]

sonyasal wrote:
Hi,I can soooo relate to you, i am a divroced mum of three children under ten, i have been divorced for three years (best three years of my life!) I have bought my PPOR and three IPS in this time. Admittedly I had a little more money, about $170K when i divorced, but I wasn't working and relocated 600 klms away from where I had…[Read more]

Thanks everyone…all opinions are greatly appreciated and I will consider anything and everything and weigh it all up…I do plan to take baby steps and take it slow…$100K is alot to blow and at the same time…not much at all. Keep all the ideas coming please…..

businessglobal wrote:
mmm- based on seeing many cases in my office like this and advising on them- I can say I see a lot worse that your situation, and if you still have 100k, health, young age and your mental faculties things look bright. Probably the most important thing is to stay close to your kids and not move away from them, take a mini…[Read more]