Quote:(I was told to never tell children “We can’t afford it” as it creates the pauper mentality; whereas the explanation given develops responsible financial planning.)end Quote
Thank you that is good advise.
I always try to talk to my 2 sons as if they are much older and include them in the family disscussions.
Oh and I took it away becasue you never can tell with some people I once sent a “net send” the screen that pops up on your monitor that the guy had virus a and would start melting his hard drive in 20 seconds. He started to delete everything to try to get rid of it []
Rudyard Kipling, Nobel Prize winning author said :
‘If you do not get what you want it is a
sign that you did not seriously want it.’
and Eric Hoffer said :
‘It seems that intense desire
creates not only its opportunities but it’s own talents.’
The Lumberjack Story
An experienced lumberjack walked past one of the new recruits. The new recruit viciously chopped away at the large tree but only managed to bruise the bark. Seeing the hard work and wasted effort, the experienced lumberjack said, “Hey, why don’t you sharpen your ax? It will make you much more efficient.”
The new recruit answered, “No. I can’t take the time to sharpen my ax. I’m busy trying to cut down this tree.”
Many people suffer from the “dull ax” syndrome. They set goals, work hard, but never reach the success they desire. Why? Because they never took the time to sharpen their “ax” by learning new, effective skills. These people waste effort, waste resources, and waste their careers. If only they would take a little time away from their frenzied futility to learn the skills that would serve them for a lifetime.