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I thank you all so very much for your valuable input.
Dazzling, I am not asking for the Champagne lifestyle, I just want a 3 bedroom house so I can raise children. Thats all. I didn’t think a 3 bedroom house with 2 kids and a husband was a champagne lifestyle! Its not different to people living in Mill Park who have 3 bedroom houses! I don;t see how they have a champagne lifestyle. I just want my own family home. Thats it.
You can’t rasie 2 kids, have a husband and work from home from a 2 bedroom flat in Thornbury for exmple. I didn’t think this was such a huge leap- anymore than any couple wanting to start a family. There are some things in life that are just more important than property- such as family. But I thank you for your feedback anyway.
Guys many thanks for letting me know, I’ll have a good look at some of those links and threads. You are all very kind to help me.
Where there is a will there is a way. To hell with it, I’ve overcome obstacles far greater than this in my life[happy3]!
Gosh, I don’t understand some women. I’m a woman, earn twice to three times as much as my husband, love property investing, have two passive income businesses and have always had an interested in long term financial security.
I like Sci Fi far more than romantic comedies. (Romantic comedies just annoy me, they should be called “unrealistic emotional co-dependancy”). I am the only woman in the newsagent who goes for a copy of “Wealth Creator” than “Vogue.” There’s more substantial stuff in WC.
When we got married the wedding was lovely, but I was not obsessed with bridal mags, cakes or any of that other stuff. I had my wedding dress made simply, with simple things to match. To me the love we had (and have) was far more important. And to sacrifice some things at the wedding for a better financial future made more sense to me than a cake that lasted for 10 hours.
I think many women get caught up in the “image” and “hype” of a wedding and loose sight of whats really important.
Our wedding day was not the “most important day of my life” because life is long and why limit happiness to just one day? Thats crazy! Happiness is for anytime, not because I become a “wife”. I can be happy on my own with or without a husband.
I wish you much luck and happiness my friend, and lets hope your partner realises that property investment is FAR more important than a wedding day.
My best to you and congrats on your marriage.
Angel[biggrin]
Derek,
Thats cool about deleting the other thread, I am new to this forum stuff anyway!
Some lenders give 100%??Seriously? On what planet does this happen? [biggrin] Just kidding!
What situations do they lend on 100%? Thats amazing, I’ve never heard of that before. Is that a little risky? Or is it fairly common in some areas?
Derek do you have anyone you know that I can ask about my situation? I don’t mind paying a little higher interest if it means getting me the home I want.
Cheers and thanks for your reply,
AngelReally?
But I don’t think 60 or 70K income and 18K of eq. is enough to buy a 300K property…or is it?
Angel
